Although it generally affects males from the ages of 15 to 25, there are other cases where frotteurism has become a problem for people, especially if they suffer from other paraphilias or mental disorders. The exact nature of this disorder is not known, but it is thought to be primarily caused by discovery of sexual pleasure through the act accidentally. There may be other psychological factors at play, making it important to seek treatment if frotteurism is diagnosed. Online therapy here at may be helpful, but first here are some other things you should know about this sexual disorder.

Causes and Dangers of Frotteurism 

As mentioned, the exact causes of this sexual disorder are not known, but there are many risks that come with this sexual disorder. For some, it may result in problems with authorities, while others may end up having problems with other mental disorders because of the frotteurism. When a person goes from fantasizing about non-consensual sexual gratification to trying to act it out in real life, there is a chance of serious negative consequences, including time in prison. The disorder may lead to other mental problems as well if not treated.

Symptoms of Frotteurism 

For most people, frotteurism starts as fantasies, which can be hard to notice unless a person talks about them. Eventually, most people move on to actually committing the act in real life, rubbing themselves against unwilling partners. Symptoms of various other paraphilias may be present as well, including sadism. Because the symptoms are hard to notice at first, many people may not seek treatment until the disorder starts to have a serious negative effect on their life. No matter what stage the disorder is at, there are treatment options available that can help.

Treatment for Frotteurism 

Behavioral therapy should be a large part of any treatment program for frotteurism. In addition, other aspects of psychotherapy can be useful as well. We have combined tradition, trained therapists who specialize in Froteurism and other paraphilias with the communication powers of the Internet. This allows people to get they help they need wherever they might be whenever they need it. In addition, joining our self-help forum can offer support from people who are going through similar problems. This combination of psychotherapy with the Internet is a powerful way to get the information and guidance needed to minimize the negative effects of frotteurism before it leads to serious problems.

Definition of Frotteurism

Frotteurism is a disorder that causes a person to derive sexual pleasure from rubbing - especially genitals - on a non-consenting person. Treatment for frotteurism should include both therapy and counseling.

Symptoms of / Reasons for Frotteurism

  • Constant sexual fantasies about rubbing against a non-consenting person
  • Acting out sexual desires to rub against an unwilling person

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